If you're dealing with painful anal sex or gay anal penetration, or you just wanna be ready for that massive eight inch uncut dick, anal training is a great way to boost confidence, prep for a hot gay hookup or just make anal sex a little more enjoyable without having to bite a pillow with the next gay man (or gay men) you invite over for a one-on-one fuck show or a gangbang orgy.
Use Squirt to find a guy ready to go to town on that ass, but before you do, if you’re neverous about not having the most robust ass, many guys consider anal training to take their spchinter to the next level; let’s dive into this, suprirsingly not-very-niche world that requires lots of lube, patience and some courage to take your ass to new levels!
What is Gay Anal Training?
Gay anal training is the process of preparing your body for anal sex to make the experience more comfortable and enjoyable; this can involve a variety of techniques, such as stretching exercises, usually with a gay sex toy, butt plug, dildo, anal beads or even a unique anal training set, with various size dildos, to get your ass ready and open for the real deal.
When it comes to sexual health, anal training is a sex positive practice that allows sexually active guys to own their horny holes; getting them closer to that legendary power bottom status, or in all honesty, ensure they don’t come back from a very well-endowed dick date with anal fissures because they weren’t prepared for what the guy was packing.
Anal training can be the sex toy route mentioned above. Still, it can also be a little less intense and involve fewer toys and more relaxation techniques, like focusing on your breathing, fingering your hole, and allowing your sphincter to clench down on your finger, or Kegels to get you ready and ease your hole for dick. However, this method may not be the way to prepare for a threesome, an all-night bang at your local gay bathhouse near you or taking several loads at the video arcade in your city. But, in the end, defining your training is up to you.
Why Consider Trying a Gay Anal Train?
Trying gay anal training can have several benefits, with the primary one being that if you're a tight bottom, a virgin or have had anal sex before but felt super uncomfortable, this is a way to make it a little bit more manageable. If you’re known as a blowjob affiaciando or a pro at gay oral sex, but your hole could use some practice, training your ass is the next best step to ensure all orifices are on the table the next time you chat up a horny neighbor you meet on Squirt.
Should I Use Plenty of Lube and Silicon Lube When Anal Training?
Lubing up your hole is a big part of anal training, and probably no one would recommend going the dry route for some sex toy play; heck, even a bit of spit can go a long way. However, the type of lube is really up to you and your preference.
Water-based lubes are great for all types of sex toy play, but many people say silicone lube is better to preserve the integrity of many silicone toys. However, silicone lube is known for its staining properties, so be careful when using it on your favorite bed sheets.
Ultimately, using silicone, water-based lube, or your toy preference is based on your comfort level. There are no hard-and-fast rules about what you need or what you should, as long as that hole is getting stretched and you feel comfortable!
Some guys hate bottoming and are OK being just tops, only giving dick but never receiving. However, for some guys, the sore spot isn't taking dick as it is so much not being able to enjoy anal; in fact, being versatile allows for more gay hookup opportunities.
Nothing sucks more than being on a gay hookup app like Squirt, finding the hottest guy on your grid and finding out you can't fuck because he's a rabid top and your tight hole is a cockblocker.
So, rather than passing on that taste of man meat or giving it a go and risking some possible pain or ass injury, many guys take it into their own hands to make anal sex more comfortable by training their fussy bottom at home before a big date.
Will Anal Training Help Me on How to Be a Better Bottom During Gay Sex?
Gay anal training can help you become a better bottom, building up your endurance and stamina. Learning how to relax your sphincter muscles can make anal sex more comfortable and enjoyable for both you and your partner, and it all happens by strengthening your pelvic floor muscles, like with Kegels, which can also help you control your muscles more effectively during sex, leading to a better experience for both partners.
Should I Do Gay Douching Before Gay Anal Training?
Bottoming and douching are something that many avid gay bottoms will tell you go together; it makes sense to get a little clean before getting dirty. It just doesn't make sense not to douche out for a hookup, but it also doesn't make sense skip douching when shoving toys up your ass at home, as this can also ensure a less messy experience.
Using a specially designed anal douche bulb or enema kit, or some guys use a special shower nozzle that gets up there, can help you clean out your rectum without causing any harm. Then, it allows you to get in there with some lube, your fave gay sex toy and not have to worry about the sheets or laying down a towel. Just because you're alone doesn't mean it has to be messy.
How Do I Do Anal Size Training?
If you're ready to train that ass, start by getting or purchasing your fave or new sex toy. Think about size for a first-time anal play experience, so don't go too big: you can always go bigger as you get better and more experienced.
Once you have it, ensure you use your best sex lube to make your whole is nice, slippery and ready; start slow with your fingers, pushing in your index finger to get yourself all lubed up. Then, insert the toy and carefully listen to your body, stopping when you feel discomfort or pain.
Once the toy is in, hold it there and allow your anus to retract and hold the toy, almost treating it like an ab crunch; squeeze that hole with a suggested set of ten or twenty retractions; feel that tightness as you imagine that dildo to be a real cock.
Then, it's a matter of frequency and how comfortable you are repeating the exercise; usually, it helps if you allow the toy to arouse your hole, making the experience part of your masturbation experience. The frequency is up to you, but eventually, you'll notice less discomfort, and you may even want to increase the toy size.
Go with your gut; you'll know when you're ready for the real thing. Hell, maybe you'll even invite a guy over to help you train that ass with a set of toys and then their dick!