Nothing says "ouch" like a hookup a little too eager to penetrate your tight, horny hole. While lube, a couple of fingers and a bit of your practiced breathing techniques are essential for optimal pleasure, foreplay is a key part of getting hot sex on the right foot.
Meeting someone on Squirt, getting to their place or inviting them to yours may mean you're all revved up and ready to get things moving once your pants hit the floor. However, steady pacing, hot hands and an eagerness to warm up the body are vital for a good time. Hence, foreplay comes in to save the day. Here's why and how you can get a little foreplay going right for your next hot gay hookup.
What is Gay Foreplay?
Foreplay is a crucial part of any sexual encounter between two men. It involves a variety of intimate acts that are intended to arouse and pleasure both partners before engaging in penetrative sex; this can include kissing, touching, fingering, oral sex, frottage, mutual masturbation, and even nipple pinching if you're one of the lucky ones to feel sensation in the nips that it makes your dick shoot right up!
Why is Gay Sex Foreplay So Essential?
The human body is a precarious thing, and that means we're not always ready to experience all the bounties and beauties that are hot gay anonymous fucking without a bit of help and encouragement.
Simply put, our bodies and minds need a few simulation cues to get ready for dick, especially if, as a bottom, you haven't been warmed up. For example, with a couple of fingers, the tip of the dick or a pleasant gay rimming session. Also, what can be a total shock to the system: an eager gay top sticking the entire cock in your hole right at the beginning of the hookup. Ouchies!
Gay sex foreplay is essential to get yourself in the mood and also allows certain parts of the body to feel at ease and comfortable.
Let's face it, time is hardly on our side, and while it may feel like we want to rush a hookup so we can get back on the metro home or just to the main event of finally letting off some steam and finally getting some sexual release, you could be your very own cockblocker by rushing into things.
Have you ever fucked a twink too hard, too quickly? If you have, you've undoubtedly seen the pain in their eyes and bloom off the rose as they try to get their horny hole ready to take more dick. Love comes quickly, but sexy hookups are a slow, steady pace that needs to increase in pleasure and rhythm if anyone is ever gonna get what they want.
How do I Initiate Successful Horny Gay Foreplay
Foreplay is about taking your time, enjoying the moment, listening to your partner's emotions, and reading their facial expressions for enjoyment. From moaning, "Yes, more," to the tried-and-true facial expressions, or “O face,” paying attention to the moment is essential.
It's also just enjoying the things that do qualify as sex. Still, it isn't always going to be seen as the most important to penetrative gay bareback moments (not including the essential gay community of sides), such as blowjobs, rimming, kissing, fingering, even a little over-the-clothes action if things start to heat up during a Netflix and Chill moment.
In all honesty, the things above are things you want to enjoy leading up to the main event and shouldn't be a chore.
However, once things are heated up, it's also vital to secure the essentials, such as your fave lube, to make sure everything goes smoothly; sometimes, a little spit and courage can cut it, and a spit fetish might even be on the table, but you gotta ensure that if you're only working with spit, you are taking your time to make sure everyone is nice and warmed up.
How to Prep for Gay Sex?
Once you’ve figured out ways to keep guys engaged and revved up with some foreplay, it’s also vital to do the things between the hookup call and the host event to ensure things go as planned.
As a bottom, douching well and ensuring everything is nice and tidy down there is crucial so there is no “intermissions” to clean things up as you’re getting pounded to the next county.
Also, consider your safe sex options. No matter your sexual orientation, men who have sex with men are at a high risk of becoming HIV positive. Consider PrEP and PEP post-exposure prophylaxis to not only prevent HIV but also prevent the spread of certain STIs.
Talk to your doctor about side effects and if you need to take PrEP every day based on your sexual activity, or if you qualify to do On-demand PrEP.
Prep Before Sex with Gay Cruising App Squirt
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