Have you ever found yourself in a gym locker room sauna, a hottie with their towel undone beside you, sighing and wicking the sweat off their muscles? Or, the intense steam of a steam room dissipates only to see a guy letting his hands wander up his towel, massaging his thighs from a tough workout?
While they could just be enjoying the hot hot heat, you may be missing out on some clear gay cruising signals they are putting out.
Or, you may be well acquainted with hooking up in a sauna; perhaps, if the walls could talk, some of your favorite gay bathhouses near you would have quite a lot to say about the loads you’ve unleashed on the steam room floor from a hairy muscle daddy you still think about when jerking.
Whether you know the thrill of a sauna hookup, or the experience is a new one that intrigues you to your core, Squirt helps you find gay, bi and curious males who are all about getting other guys wet; whether in the steam room or with the right touch in the bedroom.
Finding what you like is easy with a grid of guys ready for a good time on Squirt. But let’s explore sauna cruising deeper, and how to penetrate into the fun that comes with dropping your towel and letting yourself explore.
Can You Have Gay Sex in a Sauna?
The short answer: yes. However, the longer answer is: it depends. While a potential hookup may be soaked in sweat on the sauna at your gym, the discretion and insight to pursue that opportunity is up to you.
We at Squirt would never personally endorse hooking up in your gym locker room or any public places, but when there’s a will, there’s a way, and many of our members can’t help but spot an opportunity, creating cruising listings on our site that mark out places where an easy hookup can be possible.
However, circumstances are always evolving; spots for cruising and gay sex that were almost-guaranteed may make you feel like a tumbleweed could roll by any moment when you get there.
A cruising spot that was hot one day may die out the next, so keeping an eye on what Squirt members are saying about a new gym, a public restroom or a local park with your free Squirt account is a great way to stay abreast of any new places where males are fucking, or if you have to be careful of any risk that could get you into some serious trouble.
However, there’s always tried-and-true, for-sex spots–like your local bathhouse or gay sauna–that are there specifically for the hookup potential. These places will hold no legal risk of getting it on in the sauna, and quite frankly, will encourage you to do it.
Check out Squirt.org for bathhouses that get the most busy for optimal sex potential, attract the right clientele that turns you on, and is close enough that you can walk out with a few loads still inside you and have no trouble riding that warm feeling, but getting home safe.
How Can I Have Sex in a Gay Sauna?
There are two parts to the question; one being “how can I find saunas in which I can have gay sex” and the more valuable question of: “how can I signal to guys I’m interested in hooking up once I’m in the sauna.”
The former question is detailed above, which is, if you have an idea of places where gay cruising happens, you’re creating the right parameters to guarantee that a hookup is possible.
But for public places (if you’re feeling curious [but again, not something we endorse you to do]), there are some skills and signals you need to put out to let a guy know you’re interested, and to avoid getting caught.
First, the signalling may begin on the gym floor or in the locker room; a casual glance or a sultry stare near the weight racks, or keeping prolonged eye contact in the locker room as they undress, seeing if they flinch or seem interested by the attention you give them.
With some of these cues already put out there, the choice to follow you into the sauna and show some form of "reciprocation" that they are interested in what you’re putting out is up to them. No need to be aggressive.
However, if you find yourself entering the sauna or steam with a guy already there that you have interest in; or you’re there with the sole intent of seeing who’s coming in for a midday weekday steam and want to make sure they know what you're seeking, it takes some skill to show your interest and see if that’s why they are there too, without being too obvious.
First off, it’s not unusual to strike up a conversation with another guy in the sauna; we’re talking low-key conversation like new additions in the gym, the weather or even asking what they do to get such great triceps. This isn’t hot gay dirty talk, but a compliment to their body can show interest on your part, and their answer can indicate a chance for them to take it as a flirt, or answer the question clinically and tell you to stay in your lane.
If you get a positive response, you can move closer to them to “better engage in the chat” and open up the possibility of some foreplay and touch is a great next step. Again, how they react to you moving closer–either with openness or slight discomfort or tension in their wet, slick muscles–shows you may be overreaching and to pull it back again.
For those who are more non-verbal or deal with social anxiety, a loosening of the towel, hiking up the towel, moaning slightly as you “enjoy the steam” or doing your best “Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct” across the sauna to see how they look at your dick are all ways to gauge interest and make a move.
However, don’t be surprised if these more indirect ways don’t work as well as respectfully putting out a strong hookup vibe verbally through some easy chit chat and flirtatious overtones.
Don’t be shy, but don’t be forceful or disrespectful either; if one guy shows he’s not into the game and shies away or gets out, another one who is strongly consenting to having some fun will come along soon, or next time. Just be patient. And be discreet; getting too caught up in the moment could lead to getting caught and possible consequences we don't recommend.
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Whoever you’re into, Squirt hosts an array of guys in your ‘hood who are always down for a little fun, and aren’t afraid to show it. Get started today and find the sauna sex you’ve been holding out for and can’t wait any longer.