Gender identity is a special subject for gay guys in the LGBTQ community, and sometimes, you may be on a gay hookup site and may not know what certain “sub-culture” type mean.
Femboys are one type of men you may find scrolling through Squirt in the United States, and you may not be sure what it means or if it impacts a guy’s sexual orientation. Here’s the quick scoop on cruising femboys in real life or online.
What is a femboy?
If you don't know what a femboy is, here's the scoop. A femboy is a cis-gender male who just so happens to exhibit typical feminine characteristics. They may enjoy wearing makeup, dressing in feminine clothing, and expressing themselves in ways that defy traditional gender norms; however, they usually do not identify as trans, but maybe perhaps "genderqueer." However, it rarely means they aren’t eager for some hot thick dick, especially if they are on Squirt just as you are.
What qualifies as feminine differs from person to person, but seeing and being attracted to feminine-type guys is an "if you see it, you know" mentality. It's not just an earring, eyeliner, or how they walk and flip their hair; it's a lifestyle, and it's alright if it turns you on in ways you never thought it would.
Being attracted to femboys is natural, and finding gay men who defy typical masculine stereotypes for a good bang is possible with your #1 gay hookup app, Squirt. Men of all types in the community use Squirt to hook up, and you should, too.
Why am I attracted to effeminate gay men?
Attraction is subjective, so what turns on one guy may not turn you on, and vice-versa. As much as guys are looking for a horny hookup with hairy muscle men or silver-haired daddies, there are the same types of men who want twinks with little muscle, long hair and a tight hole that begs to be pounded.
No one should ask you to define and explain your attraction to another consensual adult who may be into you, too. Embrace, enjoy it, wrap it in a condom or fuck it bareback all night long. We highly encourage it!
Are gay femboys usually bottoms?
One common stereotype about gay femboys is that they are usually bottoms; however, that stereotype is not one you should expect when chatting with a hot gay femboy for sex.
Remember, our sense of self or identity is not determined by gender expression. Just like any other individual, femboys can have a variety of sexual preferences, including being a top, bottom, or versatile; maybe they also want to be double penetrated, used and abused and seek intense BDSM interactions in the sack, despite their meek or shy demeanor.
It's essential to communicate with your partner and respect their desires and boundaries, regardless of their gender presentation. Talk it out, treat them with kindness, and have a safe word when they decide kindness is overrated and they may need some whips and chains to excite them.
Do effeminate guys like gay bareback sex?
Again, it’s best not to make any assumption when it comes to picking up a traditionally feminine gay man; with the increased availability of PrEP and PEP cycles among young gay men, bareback sex can very much be on the table, and it isn’t just for “traditionally masculine” men.
Always be respectful when asking another man how they like to have gay sex and what they are into, and see where you align. Just because a guy matches a certain criteria or “look” doesn’t mean anything is off the table.
How do I ask gay femboys to have sex?
When it comes to asking gay femboys to have sex, it's not that much different from asking any other guy if you want to bang, be it at the sex club or gay bar; just show legitimate, respectful interest–flirt, chat and make your move.
As mentioned above, any preconceived notions about how to flirt with femboys or effeminate men may lead to them getting offended; you get the wrong idea and no one shagging. That's no fun.
When using Squirt to hook a hot guy, just be direct. Say how hot or attractive you find them, ask them if they have any similar kinks or fetishes as you, and pick a place, just pick a place and fuck.
Respect their response, whether it is a yes or no or if they need more time to think about it. Always remember that consent is key. The gay community is a vast one; there are many fish in the sea, blah, blah, blah. You get it. Be respectful and move on if needed.
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There's no harm in using a website that cuts right to the chase and that engages guys who don't mind small talk, coffee dates and long walks on the beach but would much prefer their legs in the air at the local gay bathhouse ASAP.
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