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No shame. If you're into finding out more about sub/dom relationships, BDSM and being commanded to whore yourself out but unsure what that means precisely, let's explore it.
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What is a Gay Sub and a Power Exchange?
Being a gay sub means that you enjoy taking on a submissive role in sexual encounters and relationships; this can manifest in a variety of ways, from enjoying being dominated in the bedroom, choked, spit in your mouth or your body, or just relenting to the dick and allowing the top to annihilate your tight, eager horny hole.
Being a gay sub is about power dynamics. However, the key element of sub/dom culture is always a layer of consent beneath the surface; consent, communication, and setting boundaries for the play to be arousing rather than terrifying are vital.
While the play can always go too far or push beyond people's comforts, safe words and signs ensure everyone is having fun, and there is a way to signal when things are detouring to a place of more pain than pleasure.
What's the Difference Between a Dom and Sub in Gay Sex?
When exploring the world of gay sex and relationships, it's essential to understand the difference between a dom (dominant) and a sub (submissive).
While being a gay sub involves enjoying taking on a submissive role and surrendering control to a partner, being a dom means being in control and asserting dominance in sexual encounters. The dynamic between a dom and a sub is about power play and exploring different roles and desires.
Whatever role you choose, the key element is that there will always be a power exchange between the two, making it incredibly sexy.
For example, even as a sub is submitting to a large gay gangbang orgy that you’re ochestrating, the sub may still feel power in their body, knowing that these men are getting off on them, and feeling power in their sexuality as you yell commands to keep them going.
Despite the clear power of the dom controlling the sub, the sub will still feel power in their ability to take command and behave, making it a bit difficult to discern who precisely has the power.
However, it’s best not to overthink it; just know that power dynamics will exist for both people within the relationship, and things won’t appear as black and white.
Do Only Gay BDSM Sex Relationships Have Dom/Sub Relationships?
While the dynamic of dom/sub relationships is commonly associated with BDSM relationships, it is not exclusive to gay BDSM sex.
The key factor in a dom/sub relationship is the power dynamic and the willingness of one partner to take on a submissive role, but how one submits doesn't have to mean whips, chains and restraints to qualify.
From having a humiliation kink, loving dirty talk that degrades you in the bedroom, or even having fantasies of consensual non-consent where the gay roleplay extends into a scenario where you're playing hostage/captor or cops and robbers. Or, maybe cops and rubbers, depending on how things go and your interest in gay bareback sex.
The fact is, sub/dom relationships don't have to include props, leather or fetish gear; just the will and an attitude to play and explore.
How Do I Explore Gay Submissive Sex with a Hookup?
Exploring gay submissive sex with a hookup can be a thrilling and liberating experience, and finding a dom to your sub or vice versa is easy with gay dating apps or hookup websites like Squirt.
Like any experience you're trying to procure from a gay hookup online, it's all a matter of being direct and clear about what you're looking for and what you're into; don't beat around the bush if you're looking to beat off cock pronto!
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Dating platforms and online dating, such as looking for a dom to match your sub, shouldn’t be difficult.
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Unlike gay bars, bathhouses and gay park cruising spots, all great places to get it on and get freaky, it’s tough to devise a clear sub/dom relationship, even in a group of gay guys.
That’s where Squirt comes in so that you can find your perfect match; without any geographic restrictions, no paywalls to chat with an unlimited amount of guys, and the ability to keep things casual without stressing about hitting limits, Squirt makes gay hookups, dating and yes, finding a sub to your dom hot and horny.
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