Sometimes you just wanna fuck, and not only just fuck, but really fuccccckkkk; endurance, duration and hydration are all key elements to keep it going from AM to PM. We're talking about tantric sex, or marathon session sex. We’re not talking about a five-minute bang at your local gay cruising spot, but rather some heavy-duty sex sheets (maybe a sex blanket), plenty of lube, foreplay and communication.
What is Gay Tantric Sex?
Gay tantric sex is a practice that combines the principles of tantra, a spiritual practice that originated in ancient India. However, tantra isn't about sex, but we'll explain how it's gotten the reputation of meaning long, intense and sometimes ritualistic lovemaking.
See, tantra is all about meditation and breathwork, which can be attributes of successful tantric sex, so with that in mind, you're gonna hear a lot about how this activity is about breathwork, finding a rhythmic breathing zone that essentially gets you in sync with your hookup, so you're both riding the wave and seeing how long you can last in an epic, edging adventure you're embarking on together!
Edging involves bringing yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and then easing off before climax, allowing for multiple peaks of pleasure before finally reaching release.
Essentially, tantric sex takes the element of orgasming not entirely off the table but makes it play second fiddle to the sensations, breathing and feeling in tune with the sensations and pleasures of sex, so you can hold off from the main event and keep riding the ride (or the guy!) for as long as possible.
How Long is a Sex Session When Having Tantric Sex?
The duration of a sex session when practicing gay tantric sex can vary greatly depending on the individuals involved and their level of experience with tantra.
The whole concept of measuring time with tantric sex is not the point; you're supposed to be in the moment, feeling every point of pleasure and getting lost in the ecstasy of the moment; the spiritual and pleasure principles of the tantra means the concept of "beating a record" in time, is counterintuitive.
That means, given your experience, your partner and your ability to edge off the pleasure and avoid release to keep riding the waves of near-orgasm, you can have some sustained time having hot, gay, sweaty sex.
It's also something that, with time and practice, you can get better at, so keep practicing and find yourself holding that hard dick riding an eager twink, who's also edging their cock, and explode with a final crescendo on those bedsheets whenever you want; remember, if everyone's having fun, it's not bad if the tantric experience doesn't meet the expectations of 30 plus minutes. Just keep at it.
Is 1 Hour of Gay Sex Too Long?
Sex, like anything enjoyable, can lead to quite an issue if no one is enjoying the first five minutes. Tantric sex is all about extending the delightful and the pleasurable, so if you're feeling like one hour of sex is too long, then it is.
However, if you want to go longer, and you're edging, lubing, rimming, fingering and adding the right amount of foreplay and stimulation to keep things going, then everything is being done right.
What we're saying is sometimes sex is ten minutes and feels way too long due to the circumstance of maybe a poor fuck buddy and the best sex ends too quickly. Enjoy the good things, try to extend the great stuff, and keep the unenjoyable short and maybe say you have to work early tomorrow.
How to Last Longer in Bed So You Can Explore Tantric Sex
If you’re looking to get into tantric sex, or heard super cool things about 30 minutes or more bang sessions where you’re dripping sweat and eventually cum (but not too quickly!), you’re probably wondering: how do I get to a place where I can last that long.
You can use numbing creams or lubricants. Still, we have to reiterate that tantra is all about finding the joy and pleasure through feeling the sensations of the moment and trying to last by breathing and reacting to what your hookup fuck is putting out and what you can tolerate.
As mentioned above, delaying ejaculation isn’t just a genie wish to fruition; with edging, practice, gay sex toys to pleasure your ass and enhance your solo masturbation sessions until you do eventually take a quick wank to an intense “‘bate and goon” session lasting hours.
If you’re looking for more technical ways to prepare or last longer, for the former, try pelvic floor exercises or Kegels, as training your pelvic muscles is scientifically shown to help improve your duration in bed.
You can also try the squeeze technique: a well-known premature ejaculation (PE) trick that involves applying gentle pressure to the penis, typically at the base, just before the point of inevitable ejaculation. This pressure is held for a few seconds, then released, which can help delay ejaculation.
And of course, there is always the classic edging trick “the stop start technique,” which is as you’re just about to cum, you pull out before you ejaculate, wait until the sensation of cumming subsides, and then you get right back in your face sex position and keep it rocking. Studies show it works, and many men will tell you anecdotally that it’s an excellent go-to method to keep things going from morning to night.
Also, have you tried a condom? While we are avid fans of hot and horny gay bareback sex any penetrative sex will do, and a condom for many does help to add a literal layer of protection to keep the penis a little less senseitive so that you can last longer.
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