Are you on the gay dating apps looking for a horny bottom and feeling out of luck, ready to burst? Nothing is worse than getting in the bedroom and finding out you're either both tops or both bottoms; like getting the wrong set of magnets, hot gay sex needs some opposite attraction.
So, whether you’re new to the scene, unsure how to bottom or what a bottom even is, don’t fret; Squirt is your #1 gay hookup app that helps connect you to horny guys that know how to get on all fours and take all you wanna give!
What is a Gay Bottom?
A gay bottom refers to a man who prefers to take on the receptive role in sexual activities, particularly anal sex.
While there are stereotypes that could dictate this preference, they aren't always true, so while you may be looking for a horny twink or eager femboy to take all those inches you're packing in your shorts, their tight holes may be off limits, and they might be the ones eager to give you their cock.
This preference is not necessarily determined by one's physical appearance or mannerisms, but rather by personal sexual preferences and desires. Gay bottoms may enjoy being penetrated by their hookup, their nerve endings in their ass feeling immense pleasure as a hard dick goes in deeper and deeper.
And while some horny mega sluts you see on the app get off on the pleasure in the feeling of submission and vulnerability taking cock, some guys are power bottoms (we'll get into what that means further) who just want to take it from behind, but lead the charge regardless if their face is buried deep into a pillow.
What is a Power Bottom in the Gay Community?
In the gay community, a power bottom is an individual who takes on a dominant role during gay sex, particularly in the context of anal penetration.
However, don't get it twisted; the bottom asserting himself isn't just about what happens when they're on top, working your dick and ensuring every inch pleases them the way they like it. No, this dominant attitude can happen from foreplay, all the way to the final cumshot all over the sheets.
The concept of a power bottom challenges traditional notions of masculinity and power dynamics in sexual relationships, allowing us to see in this prime example that a bottom isn't meek and gets pushed around in the bedroom. It helps highlight the spectrum of guys, from tops to bottoms, who all know what they like, and don't let stereotypes dictate their preferences.
How Do I Find Gay Hookups Who Are Looking for Bottoms?
Given the above, you can understand the challenge that can occur when you're looking for a horny power bottom, or an eager hole that wants you to ride them like a pony, if we can't count on assumptions to be accurate or precise.
Finding gay hookups who are looking for bottoms can be challenging; however, it is easier to note your preference given the prevalence of gay hookup apps and gay dating websites.
Squirt makes it easy to tell guys that you're vers, top and bottom, as well as lay out all your other interests, kinks, fetishes, sexy roleplay, or if you're a horny guy who likes to watch.
Squirt and other gay dating apps give you the option to lay it all out on the table (hell, maybe you even are getting fucked on the kitchen table: put that in your bio!), so you're not assuming anything, wasting time with guys that aren't into what you're into, and overall your hookup goes smooth.
It's a two-way street; filling out your bio with all the juicy details about yourself is just as important; from a few photos and a well-rounded profile that gives guys precisely what you're online and cruising about, it's never been easier to log on with Squirt and get a horny local guy near you at the gym locker room, in your building or a local cruising park to come and take you for a ride.
How Do I Let Guys Know When I'm Gay Cruising, That I'm a Bottom?
So when you're not on your phone and you're engaging with a potential hookup in person, it may be hard (ahem) to find out whether they are a top or bottom, but there are still some quick and sleazy ways to find out if the guy you're chatting up can take or give cock.
For example, it's always helpful as you're gay cruising at the local sex club or gay cruising bar, to be a little flirty, get a bit of dirty talk going, planting seeds of what you like and what you're into in the bedroom.
From: "I can't wait to rip your clothes off and take that hole as my own," or " you'll look so hot in my bed with your legs in the air worshipping my cock," you're giving some clear hookup vibes. Still, you're hinting at some gay sex positions, what you want to do to them, and what position you want to be in when you take them home.
Of course, you can always just ask if they're a top or a bottom, and waste nobody's time, but if you're feeling playful, they can get the impression from your suggestive language what position you prefer. It leaves the ball in their court to either say what they want or politely tell you you're barking up the wrong tree.
It's also in the body language. One way to let guys know that you're a bottom is by using body language and non-verbal cues to signal your interest in assuming a receptive role during sexual encounters. Maintaining eye contact, positioning your body so you're dry humping their dick through their jeans before taking them home.
Being upfront about what you want doesn't mean you can't be slutty and have a little fun; whether you tease them to lay out some clear hookup signals and what you're into once you're on board for pants-down fun, or just saying "I wanna ride that dick," the honesty, openness and transparency, while also being a little flirt can get you pretty far.
Use Squirt to Find Gay Sex Near Me and Meet Gay Men
Online dating to find local gay hookups? Yes, it all happens on Squirt; whether it’s feeling a slight malaise from the gay bars or seeking to find gay guys, or bi men and horny, curious straight men, Squirt unlocks access to guys beyond the local drag shows or the happy hours of your town.
Unlike other dating platforms, Squirt doesn't impose unnecessary limits on chatting with guys. While Fan Club access makes everything unlimited, including profile and photo views, there is no limit to talking with a guy, either down the street or across the globe. No geographical limits to chat, no parameters to find gay men, just a dating site that knows you want to skip the small talk and get to banging.
So join for free today and start having some wild, incredible, top-to-bottom fun.